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Our youth's greatest weakness
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Three years ago, if I had been asked whether or not I thought youth could make an impact in the world, my answer would have been no. But now, three years later, I strongly believe in the power of the voice of youth. However, the problem lies here...just like how I was three years ago, the majority of our youth today do not believe they can indeed make a difference given ambition and will. Maybe it's due to the societal stereotype that automatically labels the youth as incompetent until they reach a certain age of maturity. It is indeed true though that we as youth haven't experienced all that life has to offer, but yet we have the ability to maintain a vision, a dream of a better future. As you grow older, your perception of the world and the opportunities it presents should widen, not grow narrower. Children today should look at the world for the wide array of opportunities it has, instead of concentrating on the barriers standing in their way of achieving and acquiring their dreams. There are obstacles to any task, despite the magnitude of change that task may bring. It is not a challenge for youth to have their voice heard, it's a responsibility as a human being. If you can't voice your opinions aloud and share them with the world, why have those opinions at all?

And maybe it is up to those who have realized their power and the power of their voice to show others that they can do it too.

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it's been awhile....

I haven't posted in over 6 months, it's about time I posted, don't you think??

Well, I've started a new life in Washington DC, and I'm finally living in the US....one thing I never imagined myself doing. But here I am starting over again with new people, a new roommate, and a new place. Even after being exposed to American culture my entire life, but living here I have to say is a whole different story. So college is pretty good here and I have to say that in just a matter of months I have changed quite a bit. I feel like a different person here and that I can finally put my past behind me. I have great friends, and finally I can be on the same continent as the majority of people I know. As for love, yes I have found it and maybe in part lost it too. I've heared that it is possible to fall for someone in just a matter of months, but I've also learned that it isn't as hard as you think it is to move on. To mend the hurt and be able to open your heart for something new. After weeks of misery, I'm okay now and I can finally move on. In just two weeks I've gained so much more than what I have lost. Back to singledom again...this is how life is. And I am already looking forward to Spring Break where I'll be seeing Dumi!!! I love the fact that I can just call him up whenever I want to talk to him.

Well, I'll go into more detail of my life at another time. So keep checking, I promise I won't disappear off to the abyss again...lol.

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You Are the Future: Fundraising Workshop
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Keys to Success
From the “You Are the Future ©” Seminar
By Michael Cartier

Begin with focusing on what you can do for others, and the benefits to yourself will come naturally.

Expand your horizons. Develop your natural talents, but don’t be afraid to step out of the box. Learn something new, listen to different music, learn a new language, join an international club. You may discover a new talent in yourself!

You have the power to make a difference in the world … today.

If you make a difference in only one person’s life, that positive change will affect that person along with everyone that they come in contact with, from that day forward. Your one act of kindness and respect can give hope to an entire community, and effect subsequent generations to follow. No act of kindness is too small or insignificant. Working to help others will change your life.

‘Impossible’ is just a state of mind. When someone tells you that what you are trying to do is impossible, just say, “Yes, I know, but if it were possible, what would you be willing to do?” And while that person is busy living in the land of ‘impossible’, you are creating miracles. You can do the impossible! You will join the ranks of other miracle workers like Einstein, Bell, Salk, Mother Theresa, Mohammad Ali, Tiger Woods, etc. Be a miracle worker, the world is waiting for you to make a difference. Create the future you want. You are in control because you are the future!

What can you do? What if the project is ‘impossible’?

1. Select a project that you feel passionate about. It is that passion that will carry you through the rejections, and will move you forward when you feel totally exhausted. You will also discover that doing a community event is not much different than doing a school event (planning, recruiting, promoting, etc.)

Don’t limit yourself to large projects. Sometimes just playing a regular game of basketball with a young person who is feeling lonely or scared, can make all of the difference in the world to them, and you will be amazed at what it can do for you. It’s these little acts of kindness that can make a big difference.

Remember to expand your experiences. Learn about everything you can, and try all kinds of new things. You may discover a new passion.

2. Begin building your team. Make a commitment, your friends will hold you accountable, which will motivate you even further. You can inform others about your project by developing a website, creating an internet mailing list, contacting local clubs or groups who might have an interest in your project, or perhaps placing an ad in a local grocery store or newspaper. This way people will begin to know, talk about, and take action on your project. Be sure to let people know what’s in it for them (how will they benefit). Contact your Chamber of Commerce, religious organizations, your parent’s employers, schools, service organizations, etc.

People love recognition, set up a multi-level supporter list, with greater contributions of money or time listed in the top category, and create other categories to acknowledge lesser, but still vital contributors as well. This will act as a motivating factor for some participants in increase their contribution, and a lot of names will give additional credibility to your project, particularly if some of those names have community recognition. Get permission to use a person’s name, and make this list easily accessible to everyone.

3. Contact important leaders who can help you, or may have an interest in your project. Remember the power of youth. Important people are more likely to meet with a non-threatening young person who wants to make a change or improve something in the world, rather than someone older, who might have an agenda behind their words. Approach with a solution, give them a reason to participate in your project, in other words, what’s in it for them. This sometimes requires a little research, but is well worth your time, and is often very interesting. Practice your presentation and make it short, you only have a limited amount of time and need to make the best of it.

If the President of the company is busy, ask him for a referral to someone who he thinks could help you. Then when you approach that person, be sure to say, “Mr. Smith thought you might be interested in this project, and suggested that I speak with you”. When you approach this new person, you will now be entering with increased credibility and respect, especially if it’s from their boss. Many community leaders also enjoy the idea of encouraging and mentoring a young leader … which is you!

Also, keep daily coordinated records of who has been approached. Nothing cools off a prospective donor more than having 5 people call on him in a single day.

Contact others who have raised money in your community. They can be a great resource for donors and volunteers.

Locate grant money. This can be done through the Internet, or in books, or simply contacting corporations and other organizations who have a similar or related interest.

Contact the Mayor’s office. Their press secretary will be a great asset, especially if they can see an advantage to the community.

4. Dress for success. Be sure to dress for your audience. It helps with communication and shows respect for the person you are approaching, and their profession. You may wear a clean pair of jeans and a collared shirt (with no writing on it, with the exception of something related to your project), when approaching a casual business, like a fast food restaurant, service station, sports facility: however, when approaching a corporate executive, a tie and dress pants are recommended. Remember, you must speak your clients language, even if it is not your own, if you truly want to communicate.

5. Remember to approach powerful people in non-related areas because the leader you approach may have a strong personal interest in the project you are proposing (example: an electrical engineer may have had a family member die of cancer, making them very interested in cancer research; or your gardener’s sister might work in the Governor’s office).

6. Hold workshops, meetings, and conferences. Making change and improvement is also about face to face communication and grassroots involvement in communities. Organize an event, get help for the logistical details, but most importantly, make sure you have a plan. This plan is the map which will guide your project towards success. Remain flexible because you might discover a new way to achieve your goal. If available, make use of presentation tools like PowerPoint.

7. If you are preparing an event, be sure to check on the availability of your location, along with permit, license and other regulations and secure a site just a little smaller than you think you’ll need. Your event will look more successful if it looks a bit crowded, but not so much so that people will turn away. If only a few people show up, fancy up the place a bit, spread everything out, add some tables, and borrow lots of plants from everyone you know, to fill up space; and go heavy on the use of the word ‘exclusive’. There aren’t many people because only ‘special’ people were invited to this ‘exclusive’ private event.

8. Voice your passion, and use the media to get your message out. By using existing contacts, organizational contacts, or making new contacts, you can create effective ways to disperse information about your project. Newspapers and local radio and television stations are always looking for community programs to fill up space on slow news days; they also have a strong public relations desire to connect with the community.

9. Become involved in the world of youth networks. Most of these networks are online forums, using technology to convey their messages and ideas. These international websites are terrific ways for getting your project started, and getting support as well. Should you have the time and the resources, you could also start your own.

www.TakingItGlobal.org
www.WorldAssemblyOfYouth.org

10. Begin your advocacy campaign. Lobby politicians, corporations, and other powerful figures to help you with your goals. Let them know how this will benefit their objectives. Using the direct approach can often work better than beating around the bush because usually these executives have limited time; your opportunity to present your idea may be over before you get to the ‘punch-line’ of asking for action.

11. Present alternatives for people to become involved. This flexibility is crucial to success! Sometimes people might not have money to donate, but are willing to provide a necessary service, which has financial value (example: printing services, donating tables, providing volunteers, or food, etc.) If you itemize your projected expenses ahead of time, you will have a specific option to offer anyone who would like to contribute that item or service in lieu of money; and if you are affiliated with a non-profit organization, that contribution can be a tax write-off for the value of the service, which is yet another incentive for their support. For those who say they just can’t afford it, they may simply want to donate a discount certificate, which provides the donor with an added sale, yet he can still participate; once he sees what others are giving, he may offer more (nothing like a little peer pressure!).

Don’t let something like money stand in the way of you and the people you are about to help. Be a leader and show them how it’s done. Money is just a vehicle, if necessary, use other transportation.

Once you have established an organized effort and are ready to raise money, speak with a banker about how to set up a fundraising account. You will probably need an adult to secure the account and officially handle the financing. If you have a website, you can open a ‘Yahoo Wallet’ or ‘PayPal’ account, that will allow people to contribute to your organization using their credit card or checks online. These systems charge a small fee, but it is worth it for the added convenience of accepting credit cards and getting people to act now, because they may never get around to it later.

Create a ‘program’ for your event, which lists the day’s activities, along with the names of major donors, something information about the ‘cause’ and the benefits your project offers, provide a thank you list honoring your donors; then sell advertising space for additional income. Get someone like Kinko’s to donate the printing.

12. Attend local, regional, national, and international conferences and meetings. These meetings may have a general focus, or they may pertain to a specific issue. The Model UN conferences are a great way to open yourself up to the international youth community, and receive differing perspectives towards your issue.

Join an international club at your school or in your community. You can often find cultural groups like a French or Hispanic organization. These organizations can provide new perspectives and possibly spark new ideas relating to your project and can become natural sources of support.

13. Make submissions to media outlets everywhere. A great way of getting your message out is through writing articles, opinions, and commentaries. You can do this through internet media sources, newspapers, radio, and even TV. Research local media personalities, for their personal interests (you may have an unknown supporter).

Get free publicity!

1. Write an article in your local newspaper. An article will make you an instant expert, and give you added credibility (… as published in the New York Times). If you are uncomfortable with that, then write a letter to the editor relating to your topic of interest, or in response to a previous article in the paper. It’s amazing how many people read the editorial section of a newspaper, and it stands a better chance of getting published than a full article, where you are competing for space with professional writers.

2. Create an online newsletter. This is free and can be put on your own website, or that of one of the forum websites (which I will discuss in a minute). This will connect you to your target audience on a regular basis, and allow you to express your views to a wider readership. You can include a survey that you’ve conducted, or research you’ve completed, perhaps a resource list, or updated reports on your topic or the status of your project. Anything to get your name and your project to the reader on a regular basis. Then when you need to call on them for help, you will be a familiar name.

3. Radio. Call in to a talk show. Be sure to state your opinion as though you were addressing the United Nation, and not like you were on the Jerry Springer show. Be sure to back up your statements, and don’t just complain, give an alternative solution … which will naturally tie in to your project. If you establish a connection with the radio personality, they will often give listeners your contact information. If you come across as a credible source, then you may be given an opportunity to be interviewed on the air. If the project is community related, then you can frequently get the attention of the radio’s news or public relations departments.

4. Public Speaking. Public speaking makes you an instant expert in the eyes of your audience. Make sure that you have done your homework so that you reinforce that image. These speeches cost you nothing, and you can usually get a free lunch or dinner out of it . Organizations are always looking for new speakers. You could approach local youth groups (YMCA, scouts, etc.), schools, Chamber of Commerce, service clubs (Rotary, Junior League, etc.). Sometimes these organizations have funds available for youth or community projects, or they can provide volunteers.

5. Create a website. With the use of technology, and the limited amount of time available to most people, the internet can become your best partner. In setting up your website, remember that this may be your only chance to reach a particular person. You don’t get a second chance to make a first impression, and first impressions are lasting.

Make you website copy interesting, short, and easy to read. Provide links, buttons and banners to more detailed information, if your reader should want it. Give lots of thought to presentation. Use color (remember that if your favorite color is black and red, that using these colors for text is hard on the eyes and may discourage your reader from finishing the copy), layout, fonts, spacing, graphics, bold, italic, and underlining options to your advantage. Create a masterpiece!

Simplify your message; people like the idea of “10 Easy Steps to …”, or the idea of getting something free. Perhaps they can get a ‘Free’ subscription to your monthly newsletter with a small contribution, if they sign up ‘today’. You may even target a specific audience, such as having a separate page for corporations, individuals, or students. The message is the same, but the presentation might be different. Place many ‘buttons’ throughout the webpage that allows them to ‘Sign up now’, and continually emphasize the benefits to them, not just the services that you will provide. For example: the new park will have swings, a pond, playing fields, picnic areas, etc.; instead talk about a beautiful place for a family day of fun, and the opportunity to connect with new friends in the community. People often donate from the heart, not the head. Remember that in your presentation.

6. Create a community or school award. Provide recognition to an individual or group who are making a difference in your area of focus. This will encourage participation and reward contribution. It will also give the media a reason to publicize your group and projects, and reach others who may be good resources.

7. Do the usual fundraising activities, like car washes, bake sales, garage sales, races, and even a ‘Get Rid of Lose Change’ campaign. All of those pennies can add up to big dollars.

8. Be sure to send out thank you notes. Your donors appreciate your courtesy, and will be more willing to help you again in the future.

9. There is no such thing as impossible. When someone says your project is impossible, you say, “Yes, I know, but if it were possible, what would you be willing to do”. Don’t let other’s limitations become your own. Dare to blaze new roads. Dare to create new possibilities. Dare to be all that you know you are. Dare to make a difference.

14. Have fun, and never give up. If something is not going the way you anticipated, just try a different way. Turn your ‘failures’ into challenges, and ultimately successes. Sometimes what looks like a failure, is actually a success in disguise. Keep working on it until you get it done, and remember that there is usually more than one way to achieve your goal, be open to alternatives. Talk about the project or event as if it was already a done deal. People won’t want to be the only ones left out. Expect help from the most unlikely sources, you may be pleasantly surprised. If you expect everything to be perfect before beginning, then you may be sitting around waiting for a very long time. There are people out there who need you now, and they don’t expect perfection; they just want to know that someone cares. The road to success begins with the first step, take that step now!

Don’t just be a dreamer, be a doer! Make your dreams come true today! Create your future. The difference between a dream and a goal is in the action … take action!

You are the future!



All rights reserved. No duplication of material without express written permission of the author, Michael Cartier. Material may be used with proper attribution.


August 12, 2003 | 3:20 PM Comments  0 comments

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cubicle life

Oh boy..you would think that sitting at home with nothing to do was boring enough...trust me, sitting at an office at your desk for 10 hours a day cannot even be described as boring. And of course you have your boss sitting in direct view so you can't leave to take a break. Kill me now!! And the mere highlight of my day is when I get up to walk two meters to get a cup of coffee or when I take my lunch break. Ahhh...the pains of cubicle life. It's like my little home away from home except this home doesn't have a tv or a remote...or popcorn to eat. I think after three more weeks of this, I might declare myself insane. =^^=

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some quotes that poked out at me.... {:c)

"People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid."
- Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)

"The artist is nothing without the gift, but the gift is nothing without work."
- Emile Zola (1840-1902)

"In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. But, in practice, there is."
- Jan L.A. van de Snepscheut

"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
- Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968)

"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."
- Thomas Alva Edison (1847-1931)

"Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome."
- Isaac Asimov

May 5, 2003 | 7:01 AM Comments  1 comments

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Sometimes the hardest thing to discover is yourself...and waiting seems to be the hardest thing to do lately.

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His name is Wiggle

Isn't it a cute pig?? It was the THIMUN 2003 mascot...and I drew it!! One of my friends have this pig that dances and sings..kekeke. Awww...it's so cute!

April 29, 2003 | 1:27 PM Comments  0 comments

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Realizing a little bit of reality.

Maybe it's because at times I refuse to see what is really true, but I choose to see what I want to see...but I just realized that my family means more to me than I'll probably ever know. All the nagging, the worries, and the constant criticism, are all apart of the way family shows that they care. I guess it all depends on the way you see it...if you take your mother's nagging as nagging...then you'll end up tuning out to everything she says, not knowing that what she says may bare some truth. I guess the saying "the truth always hurts" applies completely.

My mother used to nag me all the time, enough to drive me insane...but I only used to concentrate on the things she said in which I didn't want to hear, instead of looking at the bigger picture. And now...well things are different...a lot different. I'm beginning to see how important little things between family may be, no matter how small.

You figure new things out everyday... :P

April 26, 2003 | 4:43 PM Comments  0 comments

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Emergency Relief International Support Network
About this category: Culture


Formerly 'People to People' International Support Network

Freedom Celebration and Family Picnic
Organized by Michael Cartier:
World Youth Organization (WYO)

Goals
• To create an international registry, with local chapters, that can mobilize an entire community during times of emergency to meet the needs of a community when the demand of aid outweighs the resources available
• To provide emergency relief services to victims of tragedies or families of deployed military
• To allow senior citizens an opportunity to coordinate and utilize their vast experience
• To allow young people to become active within their communities, by offering to provide their neighbors with services like free babysitting, lawn care, or tutoring
• To establish a non-political support network, of businesses and organizations, that will allow them to coordinate and contribute directly to the communities they serve; and to aid in times of emergency, through the donation (or reduced fee) of services and products
• The infrastructure can be used to aid, in any community or national emergency situation
• To raise money and aid the relief efforts of the United Way, Red Cross, USO, and other humanitarian agencies
• To encourage others across the world, to put together local and regional ‘People to People Support Networks’ for emergency relief


Kick-off Celebration, adapted to the focus of the community’s particular crisis situation

(This particular event is focused on support for United States families with military deployed abroad; which can easily be adapted)

• To have a support rally for our troops and celebration of freedom for everyone, particularly for the Iraqi people
• To offer a fun day for children of deployed military and other affected by the war
• To boost the morale our soldiers overseas
• Regardless of anyone’s political position on the war, those fighting, are doing so, and are willing to die for the freedom and democracy of others, and that sacrifice should be respected
• Freedom of speech is valued in our nation, and those opposing the war should continue to put pressure on the government. This freedom to protest, helps monitor the actions of our officials, however, we must be careful that we do not cross the line, by not honoring those who are willing to pay the ultimate sacrifice, in order that others may also be able to enjoy those same freedoms.
• A reminder that our own forefathers went to war, so that we would become a symbol of liberty and freedom, and an inspiration to others. With great privilege comes great responsibility.
• To honor the Vietnam Veterans who received little recognition and sacrificed so much both abroad and at home during a very difficult time in our nation’s history
• To honor police, firefighters, and others, who risk their lives, on a daily basis, for the safety of others
• Blood Drive, to increase the blood donation network
• To provide war letters for “The Legacy Project” for historic preservation and possible publication in the next War Letters book
• To provide the military with phone card donations through the Veterans of Foreign Wars ‘Operation Uplink’
• To provide support for the United Service Organizations (USO)
• To create the ‘World’s Largest Freedom Greeting Card’, (on a large newspaper roll) signed by all participants, and perhaps moved from location to location, as networks are established. Afterwards the ‘card’ can be displayed in various locations around the country, or in Washington DC

Event Objectives
• Kickoff Rally for the ‘People to People Support Network’
• Create a community bond during times of crisis
• Celebration for children of deployed military (include fun activities and games)
• Rally to support American soldiers in their efforts to expand the gifts of freedom and democracy to the Iraqi people
• An opportunity for military families to unite and support one another
• A chance for soldiers, veterans, and others, to express the reasons (in person or on tape) why ‘freedom’ and this campaign, mean so much to them. Responses in the form of letters, will be donated to “The Legacy Project” for preservation. (may be copies and must include a release from the author)
• A chance for veterans (VFW) to speak and share their experiences
• To give people an opportunity to help, in the best way they can, through the donation of time, services, and products, to those in need
• Have a proclamation declared by the Mayor and/or the Governor
• To create a model that can be adapted to varying situations around the world

How
• Set up a web site directory and perhaps a printed version of goods and services available
• Create a major media campaign
• Contact relief organizations and military bases
• Secure sponsorship, contact people, organizations, and small businesses, for participation and support
• Make this a nationwide support network, with local community chapters that can coordinate efforts for emergencies of a larger scale

Who
• Air Force, Navy, Marines, Army, National Guard, Coast Guard, and other military personnel
• Reserves in all services
• Veterans
• Police and Firefighters
• Senior Citizens
• Political and Community Leaders
• Schools, religious organizations and other community groups
• Youth groups: Junior ROTC, scout troops, Girls and Boys Club, etc
• United Way, Red Cross, and other relief agencies
• Blood Centers
• Photographer


Michael Cartier
Email: WorldYouthOrg@aol.com
Website: http://projects.takingitglobal.org/WYO


April 25, 2003 | 2:39 AM Comments  0 comments

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Tired of all the expectations

Do you ever feel like everyone has such high expectations of you that you can't live up to? Right now I feel like everyone around me expects me to be this smart, intelligent, talented person...and you know what? I don't think I fit that profile. I'm just tired of my parents expecting me to be their ideal student and child. I never asked for these expectations, and in fact I never guaranteed them that I can fulfill them either. I feel like someone else is deciding what I should be, when in reality I don't even know the answer. I'm just so tired of living to someone else's standards, expectations and dreams. It is as if I've lost me inside all that. Yeesh...who knew life would be this difficult?? And who knew family would be so demanding??

I wish I could go onto an uninhabited island and live there for a while just to get away....

*sigh*

April 22, 2003 | 4:25 PM Comments  0 comments

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6 weeks to go....

I think there's a time in everyone's life where you have to move on and do something new. Well...so here I am with just six more weeks in Egypt. This place has been my home for the past seven years, and it makes me wonder how fast my time here has gone by. It just seems like yesterday when I walked into the Cairo airport for the very first time. And now that the actually reality of leaving here has hit me, I begin to see that the friends I've made, the people I've met, and the experiences I've had have become a huge part of me. Yup...there were some really bad experiences, but the great memories diminishes those bad experiences.

Regardless, there will be other experiences for me to experience.....but first I gotta get through the four weeks of intensive exams that I have starting in May. Just when I thought you could stop working. Then I'll probably be off to somewhere in North America, or Korea...but let's hope it doesn't come to that.

"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not." -Emerson

April 18, 2003 | 2:57 AM Comments  0 comments

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Driving me nuts....

Sometimes the people that drive you absolutely up a wall is your family....specifically my mother. There are moments when I wish I could just run out of my house and drown out her constant nagging, and lectures. It seems as if I can NEVER do anything right in her eyes...and after awhile, you get sick and tired of having to deal with that sort of stuff. You're just never good enough......it's like I have to live my life flawlessly so that it makes up for the things she never got to do in her life. But is it right for her as a parent to try and make me live her life over again?? I know that she has the best intentions, and that she wishes the best for me, but hell, I NEED SOME ROOM TO BREATHE HERE!!!

Arghhhhh! See? I just got into another fight with her, that's all we do....argue, fight....but no, she can never find a way to apologize for anything.

Just had to get that out......otherwise I'd be fuming....

March 28, 2003 | 5:34 AM Comments  0 comments

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I hate this war and all that comes with it.

Today, I was having dinner with a friend at a restaurant and there was the Al Jazeera news network on tv. They were showing footage of dead bodies so I didn't know what it was, and then they were interviewing American soldiers....what their name is, where they're from, etc... I didn't really think much of it. But then I got home and turned on the news and found that there are American soldiers supposedly captured and maybe killed. So I turned back to the Al Jazeera network, and I see closeup footage of American soldiers all shot in the head.... I'm not sure I'm made to handle this kind of stuff....and they keep replaying it over and over again. I hate this damn war!!!!

If this is what we as a species are capable of...and that is what we have to show to one another, than I'd rather not be any part of it. I can see those images just running through my head over and over again...and I don't konw what to do with myself. I don't know what to do.....

*if anyone is offended by what I wrote, consider it a personal opinion about soemthing that I definitely saw...I apologize if I offend anyone.

March 23, 2003 | 11:58 AM Comments  0 comments

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still shocked with disbelief

Today, I came across a situation where I was just appalled at the selfishness of some people around me. It is a known fact that if a war erupts with Iraq, the school will be closed for two days due to safety precautions. I had people come to me today complaining about how their term papers are due tomorrow and how they wish the war would start, or how the US should just attack now so that they wouldn't have to do the work. Now to me, that shocks me and upsets me beyond belief. The fact that people are going around thinking that their term papers are more important than people being killed....then maybe I misjudged some people. It's just sick that people would go around saying that...or to even make sounds of bombs dropping in the middle of a lecture when there was an Iraqi student in the room. Maybe I'm too much of a left-wing, but I don't think war is the answer...and if it ever was then maybe we should rethink what we're doing to ourselves and our future.

March 19, 2003 | 9:40 AM Comments  0 comments

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Frustrated with the world situation

For the past three months, it never really hit me that war was possible. Just like many other people, I thought that it would blow over. But now I'm not so sure. In light of today's events, with UK/US 2nd resolution being withdrawn and Kofi Annan announcing that all UN inspectors and humanitarian workers are to be withdrawn in Iraq, I have this feeling of uneasiness that comes over me. Maybe it's because I live in the Middle East as a foreigner, but still the fact that war seems to be inevitable upsets me. For the past week, every night I've had to listen to military helicopters and planes fly back and forth in Cairo. And you'd think because of the distance between Iraq and Egypt, this wouldn't be much of an issue. Maybe it has to do something with the fact that Egypt is home to the largest US embassy in the world. I'm just frustrated and upset with the whole ordeal....the things that we can do to our own species, and the atrocities humans can do to other humans still shocks me. *sigh* What kind of world are we making for our children??

March 17, 2003 | 1:47 PM Comments  0 comments

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